I just realized that the Kingdom of God is a party. There are hints to this throughout the Scriptures, but I only recently put them together to reach this conclusion. Jesus said he had come to give life more abundantly (John 10:10). The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines abundant as “occurring in large amounts” and “marked by great plenty”. Now having an abundant lifestyle seems to me to be a good reason to rejoice and throw a party. And throughout his ministry Jesus gave people reason to rejoice.

When Jesus began his ministry, he proclaimed “The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent, and believe the gospel.” (Mark 1:15) The Greek word translated “repent” is “metanoia”, meaning “change your mindset”. And the Greek word translated “gospel” is “euaggelion”, meaning “glad tidings”. So Jesus was saying “The kingdom of God is coming, change your outlook on life and believe the good news.”

I find it telling that the first recorded miracle of Jesus occurred when he and his disciples were invited to a wedding reception. When the host ran out of wine, Jesus’ mother urged him to do something about it. So he had the servants bring him six 20 or 30 gallon jars of water and turned the water into wine. It wasn’t cheap wine either (think Thunderbird or Strawberry Ripple), but wine of the very best vintage, to the amazement of the master of ceremonies, who apparently thought the bridegroom had been holding out on him. And the party went on. (John 2:1-10)

Jesus obviously wanted everyone to enjoy themselves and live life large (i.e., abundantly)

As his ministry continued “Jesus went throughout Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom, and healing every disease and sickness among the people. News about him spread all over Syria, and people brought to him all who were ill with various diseases, those suffering severe pain, the demon-possessed, those having seizures, and the paralyzed; and he healed them. Large crowds from Galilee, the Decapolis, Jerusalem, Judea and the region across the Jordan followed him.” (Matthew 4:23-25 NIV)

Everywhere he went Jesus invited everyone to follow him into the kingdom of God (or kingdom of heaven). In the Beatitudes he said the kingdom of heaven belonged to the poor in spirit and those who were persecuted because of righteousness. He said that those who mourned would be comforted, those who were meek and humble would inherit the earth, those who hungered and thirsted for righteousness would be filled, the merciful would receive mercy and the peacemakers would be called children of God. (Matthew 5:3-10)

He used many illustrations to describe the kingdom of heaven, comparing it to a hidden treasure, a priceless pearl, a net that brought in all kinds of fish and a tiny seed that grew into a great tree. In other words, he was saying, it is greatly to be desired and is open to all sorts of people. His invitation included those who were outcasts of society: lepers, those considered unrighteous (sinners), the working poor and even the hated tax collectors.

He obviously enjoyed being with all kinds of people and sharing good times with them. In doing so he violated all sorts of current social norms. So much so that he incurred the wrath of the entrenched religious and political leaders. He simply wasn’t austere enough to suit them. They thought he was enjoying life too much and was inviting all the wrong kind of people to join him. Because he came eating and drinking, they said of him “Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.” (Matthew 11:19 NIV) Eating and drinking; sounds like a party goer to me.

Jesus reserved his harshest words for those who not only refused to join him but were hindering others from entering the kingdom: “You hypocrites! You shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to.” (Matthew 23:13 NIV)

Shortly before this Jesus had likened the kingdom of heaven to a wedding banquet.

“The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. He sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet to tell them to come, but they refused to come…Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come. So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find.’ So the servants went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests.” (Matthew 22:2, 3, 8-10 NIV)

One thing about this story used to bother me. When the king came in to see the guests, he noticed one man who was not wearing wedding clothes and had him thrown out. But then it occurred to me that the man must have tried to enter on the basis of his own righteous acts, which Isaiah tells us are “like filthy rags”. (Isaiah 64:6) If he had sought the kingdom of God and his righteousness as Jesus had instructed (Matthew 6:33), then he would have had the righteousness of God imputed to him and been properly dressed. Jesus concluded the story by saying, “Many are invited, but few are chosen.” (Matthew 22:14 NIV)

So when Jesus calls us to follow him and enter into the kingdom of God he is inviting us to the ultimate party, the wedding feast of the Son of God. As he said, “People will come from east and west and north and south, and will take their places at the feast in the kingdom of God.” (Luke 13:29 NIV) And the Apostle Paul tells us “Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.” (I Corinthians 12:27) And furthermore Paul says when a man is united to his wife in marriage,   “the two will become one flesh. This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.” (Ephesians 5:31, 32 NIV) So if we are the body of Christ, as a man and wife become one flesh, we must be the bride of Christ. So we are not just to be guests at the wedding but Christ’s bride to be. Talk about a reason to celebrate.

John the Revelator was given a vision during which, he said, “After this I heard what sounded like the roar of a great multitude in heaven shouting: ‘Hallelujah! Salvation and glory and power belong to our God… Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear.’ (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of God’s holy people.) Proper attire indeed for the bride of Christ.

So I am filled with excitement when I think about the unbelievable party Christ has invited us to. How about you?

For a number of years I have carried in my wallet a card with the Prayer of Jabez because it expresses my desire to reach as many people as possible with the good news of the kingdom of God on earth. Jabez called on God and said,

“Oh that you would bless me indeed and enlarge my territory, that your hand would be with me, and that you would  keep me from evil, that I may not cause pain.”

And God granted him that which he requested. (I Chronicles 4:9)

And God, being no respecter of persons, has granted me the same. I have always been the recipient of God’s blessings, from my birth until now. I was born into a family of believers, raised in a 3-generation household that taught me to honor my parents (and grandparents), how a Christian gentleman should behave and the value of hard work and perseverance. Although I strayed from the fold of God when I left home to go to college, my parents and grandparents kept me covered with prayer that kept me from too much evil and insured my survival. So God’s hand never left me even while I was otherwise engaged and ignoring him.

However, after I met and married my wife, Mary, and our daughter Jennifer came along, things escalated dramatically. Mary and Jennifer were the two greatest blessings I have ever received and they are the gifts that just keep on giving. That would be enough for a lifetime in itself, but God was just beginning. I should point out here that this was long before I ever heard of the prayer of Jabez, but God, knowing I would one day utter it myself, began granting that which I had not yet requested. What an awesome God!

It began in earnest when Mary and I jointly made a commitment to follow Christ wherever he led us and to do whatever he asked us to do. As we described in “Spiritual Entrepreneurship: Fulfilling Your God-Ordained Destiny”, God began to lead us on an adventure that took us many places we had never expected to go and gave us the opportunity to do things we had not known we could do. I had been born and raised in Texas and had no desire to live anywhere else. But God began to enlarge my territory by calling us first to move to Baton Rouge, Louisiana and then to Virginia Beach, Virginia before calling us back to Texas. In the process Mary and I both were given opportunities to employ our God-given abilities in ways we had never anticipated. God also both planted in us a desire to travel and gave us the means to do so. In doing so he managed to enlarge our territory to include all 50 of the United States of America and over 60 foreign countries. We began to realize that the kingdom of God on earth was meant to encompass all of humanity throughout the whole world.

God’s hand was with us everywhere we went, protecting and guiding us and empowering us to accomplish all that came to our hands to do. This awesome adventure together lasted for nearly 53 years before God called Mary home to be with him. However, I was not truly left alone. Mary is still with me in spirit every day, everywhere I go, and God has never left my side. He is always with me and in me by his Spirit. So now I travel solo, but never alone. And God is still enlarging my territory.

After all the places Mary and I had travelled to, there were few places left that we had a desire to visit. One of these was South Africa, but Mary’s declining health prevented us from being able to undertake the rigors of that long a trip. But earlier this year (2019) I did make that trip, and I felt her presence with me throughout it. I took her in spirit where she had not been able to go in the flesh. And I did it in September and October to celebrate what would have been Mary’s 75^th birthday.

Then this November I participated in a mission trip to the Texas border at Brownsville to take meals to the asylum seekers in the migrant encampment across the border in Matamoros, Mexico. Closer to home I have been given the opportunity to serve once again as a Deacon at Grace Presbyterian Church in Plano, Texas, to serve on the Men’s Council planning the 2020 Men’s Conference at Mo Ranch in the Texas hill country and to participate in the outreach effort to get people engaged in their local church and community through the North Texas Presbyterian Pilgrimage organization. Next Spring I plan to take a trip to Vietnam and Cambodia, one of the last areas Mary and I wanted to visit. Once again I will take her with me in my heart.

As you can see, God has abundantly answered my prayer as he did the prayer of Jabez. I can hardly wait to see what else God has in store for me. One word of caution here: Be careful what you pray for; God may just give it to you in ways you don’t expect.

Our Senior Pastor recently preached a sermon urging us to reject maintaining order that perpetuates inequality and injustice for some and to embrace change that provides equality and justice for all. Those who are well served by the status quo are always loathe to allow changes. And those who are ill-served by it are always advocating for it to be changed. Both sides tend to defend their position vehemently and this often leads to clashes, nearly always highly vocal and sometimes violent. And positive results are generally slow in coming. But the good news is they are coming, however slowly.

This was pointed out in a book I recently read by Hans Rosling (with Ola Rosling and Anna Rosling Ronnlund) entitled “Factfullness: Ten Reasons We’re Wrong About the World – And Why Things Are Better Than You Think”.¹ In it Rosling uses statistics compiled by the World Bank and the United Nations to show that our long-held preconceptions about the state of the world are incorrect. Instead of getting worse at an increasing rate conditions are actually getting better in most respects.

In 2017 he and his colleagues asked nearly 12,000 people in 14 countries a series of 13 questions about current conditions in the world. On average they answered only 2 of the first 12 questions correctly. And many groups of highly educated people fared worse than the general public. As these were all multiple choice questions with three possible answers, Rosling postulates that a group of chimpanzees would get one-third of the questions right by sheer luck (they have a 1 in 3 chance). And the chimps’ guesses would be more or less evenly distributed between the incorrect answers, while the human errors tend to be in one direction. Every group of people tested believes the world is more frightening, violent and hopeless than it really is.

The correct answers to the 13 questions are:

1. In all of the low-income countries of the world 60 % of girls finish primary school.
2. The majority of the world’s population lives in middle-income countries.
3. In the last 20 years the proportion of the world’s population living in extreme poverty has almost been halved (i.e., 50% fewer).
4. The life expectancy world-wide is 70 years. (Actually, the worldwide life expectancy at birth in 2016 was 72 according to the World Health Organization ² and since 1900 the global average life expectancy has more than doubled ³⁾
5. There are 2 billion children in the world today aged 0-15 years. According to the United Nations there will be 2 billion in 2100 (no change)
6. The United Nations predicts that by 2100 the world population will increase by 4 billion because there will be more adults (aged 15 to 74).
7. Over the last 100 years the number of deaths from natural disasters has decreased to less than half.
8. There are roughly 7 billion people in the world today, 1 billion each in the Americas, Europe and Africa, and 4 billion in Asia. The United Nations projects that by 2100 there will still be 1 billion people in the Americas and Europe, but 4 billion in Africa and 5 billion in Asia.
9. 80% of the world’s 1-year-old children have been vaccinated against at least one disease.
10. World-wide 30-year old men have spent 10 years in school on average, while women of the same age have spent 9 years.
11. In 1996, tigers, giant pandas and black rhinos were all listed as endangered. Today none of them are.
12. 80% of the people in the world have at least some access to electricity.
13. And the one answer 86% of people got right. Global climate experts believe that, over the next 100 years, the average temperature will get warmer.

This is due to the massive public awareness campaign to inform people of this issue. Regardless of what position people take on the causes of it, the fact of global warming is becoming self-evident. However, there is mass ignorance (not stupidity but lack of correct knowledge) on the other 12 questions. This lack of knowledge of the facts leads to misguided and mostly ineffective attempts to correct problems that do not really exist in the magnitude believed. And it tends to lead to seeking immediate solutions that are quick and easy to what are generally complex problems that take a long time to fully resolve. And so it behooves us to embrace the documented facts that positive change to issues like extreme poverty, child mortality rates, illiteracy, income inequality and Malthusian projections of overpopulation is ongoing and much progress has already been made and to continue to patiently and persistently pursue the eventual culmination of these changes. If this idea seems farfetched to you, I recommend that you read the entirety of Rosling’s book, which is available from Amazon.com.

Another book I read recently by Matt Brown, entitled “Awakening: How God’s Next Great Move Inspires & Influences Our Lives Today” draws similar conclusions about the general lack of knowledge about what God is doing in the world today. Brown’s premise is that Christians in the western world (and particularly the northern hemisphere) are so wrapped up in what is happening in our own churches and denominations that we fail to notice what God is doing in the rest of the world. If we were more aware of the incredible things happening in Christianity around the globe we would be greatly encouraged, he says:

“Most of the believers I’ve met at churches from many denominations across the country are unaware of how Christianity is flourishing around the world—and even down the street from where they live. They perceive the status of the global Christian faith through the microscopic lens of their local church, churches they may have heard of in their city, or what little they know of their denomination. This lack of knowledge and understanding of God’s constant activity can lead to many problems in a believer’s life—not just an unawareness of what God is doing, but a lack of understanding about our place in a much bigger story… With all that is going on in the world—political instability, persecution of Christians, tragedies, and wars—we need encouragement that God is at work all around us.” ⁴

Brown then proceeds to share “how God is moving around the world in ways unprecedented in history” and asks us to “reflect on how being a part of this larger story affects {our} own story.” ⁵ He begins by asking several questions about the status of Christianity today and the size of the movement of God globally. ⁶ These are:

1. Where is the largest church building in the world, and how many people does it seat?
2. Where is the largest church numerically in the world, and how big is it?
3. Who has preached the gospel in person to more people than anyone {else} in human history?
4. What is the largest ministry in church history for an individual ministry (not denominational)?

The largest church building is in Nigeria, Africa, he says, and seats nearly 50,000 people for a single service. The largest church numerically is no longer Yoiddo Full Gospel Church in Seoul, Korea, a small-group-based church that has close to one million weekly attendees. It is now another church in Nigeria, not the one with the largest building, but another congregation with nearly two million attendees (note that is not members, but attendees). This church holds a monthly prayer meeting outdoors that draws as many as eight million people. These are staggering numbers to those of us accustomed to much smaller numbers of attendees who are a small percentage of the members on the church rolls.

The answer to the third question is a “German-born missionary by the name of Reinhard Bonnke {who} leads an organization known as Christ for All Nations that has communicated the gospel to more people than any other in human history. Billy Graham’s largest crusade was in South Korea in 1979, and he preached in person to more than one million people in a single service. Reinhard Bonnke’s largest crusades have been held in Africa, and he preached to several million on a dusty field in Nigeria in 2001, and more than one million people dedicated their lives to Jesus Christ in a single service!” ⁷

And the answer to the fourth question is a man by the name of “Vincent Ferrer, whom the Catholic Church has since named a saint. He ministered in the fifteenth century, around the same time as Martin Luther, and he had as many as ten thousand people on his ministry team who traveled with him across Europe on foot as they spread the gospel.” ⁸

If you are like me you probably didn’t know the correct answer to any of these questions. These and many other astounding facts are unknown to many Christians.

“These kinds of stories”, Brown says, “could impact and inspire you and me to the greater things God has for us. Hearing about these people should stir our hearts and move us into action. But we often miss our moments. What can we do in our own neighborhoods? Some churches are effectively bringing in those who need to hear the gospel. But some are not as effective in this area, and many Christians don’t attend church at all. What can you do to show the life of Christ that is in you to others? We need to be willing to take what we know to be true and share it with those who don’t yet know it. We want to awaken them to the same life that we have because of Christ.” ⁹

Once we are aware of what God is doing in the world we should be inspired to actively participate in the movement of God by joining local or regional prayer groups that seek God’s guidance and empowerment to become part of what he is doing in the world. If we are unaware of such a group we should start one. A good resource for beginning an effective prayer group is a book by Brad Long and Doug McMurry, entitled “Prayer That Shapes the Future: How to Pray with Power and Authority” ¹⁰

And we should be involved with justice movements, rejecting the maintenance of order that perpetuates inequality and injustice for some and embracing change that provides equality and justice for all. In doing so, however, we need to avoid taking a one-sided, one-size-fits-all, approach that pits us against those with a different point of view and leads to bitterness and division. That only adds to the problem. Instead we should demonstrate a better way through loving our neighbor (and even our enemy) as Jesus commanded (not suggested). That means taking the time to listen to their point of view and prayerfully considering whether there is validity to it that can better inform our understanding and hopefully lead to joint solutions to the problems we are concerned with.

We should also fulfill our part of the Great Commission (Matthew 28:18-20; see also Mark 16:15 and Acts 1:8) by going into all the world and teaching all the nations everything that Christ has taught us. And while this may seem to be an impossible task, the truth is it is already well under way. In fact, according to Brown, “People are coming to faith in Christ at a rate like no other time in human history, especially in the global South.” ¹¹ We noted some of the evidence of that earlier in regard to Africa. But it is also happening in South America and even China. Brown quotes the pastor of a church in Bogota, Columbia with a quarter of a million weekly attendees as saying:

“Christianity is growing at three times the rate of the world’s population. In America only is it decreasing.”

“But even this quote can be deceiving,” he continues, “since America still has the number one population of Christians in the world. In fact, ten times more Americans attend church on a single weekend than the crowds that fill all the NFL football stadiums over the entire football season.” ¹²

As to China, Brown quotes Joe Carter, a writer for The Gospel Coalition, who says:

“The number of Christians in Communist China is growing so steadily that by 2030 it could have more churchgoers than America.  The People’s Republic of China remains, at least officially, an atheist country. But the number of Protestant Christians in China has grown from one million in 1949 to more than 49 million in 2010. Experts believe that number could more than triple over the next generation. . . .  Sociologist Rodney Stark estimates that during the first 350 years of Christianity, the faith grew at a rate of 40 percent per decade. During the 61-year period from 1949 to 2010, Christianity grew at a rate of 4,800 percent in 61 years, a rate of 89% per decade. . . .  By mid-century, China may have more citizens who identify as Christians than the United States has citizens.” ¹³

Even in the Muslim world people are coming to Christ in record numbers. Christianity Today quotes career missiologist David Garrison as estimating that “2 to 7 million people from a Muslim background worldwide now follow Christ.” ¹⁴

Much has been accomplished, but much remains to be done, and we should be motivated to join with our brothers and sisters in Christ around the world in this effort. We do that by following Christ’s commands and living our lives before the world to demonstrate the kingdom of heaven on earth, while inviting others to join us. As Francis of Assisi said:

“Preach the Gospel everyday & only if you have to…use words.” ¹⁵

And where are missionaries needed the most? According to Melissa Steffan:

“The country that received the most missionaries in 2010? The United States, with 32,400 sent from other nations.” ¹⁶

It should be obvious that you don’t have to go overseas to be a missionary. You can and should be one at home. In fact, the slogan of the church of which I am a member has the slogan “Every member a missionary” ¹⁷.

So what is my point in all of this? Simply that if we are concerned about the issues that we see and hear about every day and that makes us fearful, depressed and angry, believing that the world is rapidly “going to hell in a handbasket”, we are woefully uninformed about what is really happening. We should wake up, open our eyes and ears to behold what God is doing on a global scale to alleviate these problems and make the world a better place. And we should be asking ourselves how we can get onboard with this move of God and become an active participant with  him in bringing this to pass.

Notes:

1. Rosling, Hans (with Ola Rosling and Anna Rosling Ronnlund), Factfullness: Ten Reasons We’re Wrong About the World – And Why Things Are Better Than You Think (New York NY: Flatiron Books, 2018
2. https://www.who.int/gho/mortality_burden_disease/life_tables/situation_trends/en/
3. https://ourworldindata.org/life-expectancy
4. Brown, Matt Awakening: How God’s Great Move Inspires & Influences Our Lives Today (Abilene, TX: Leafwood Publishers-An Imprint of Abilene Christian University Press, 2015). Kindle Edition, pp. 11-12
5. , p. 12
6. , p. 25
7. , p. 26
8. , p. 27
9. , p. 27
10. Long, Brad & Doug McMurry, Prayer That Shapes The Future (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Publishing House, 1999)
11. Brown, op. cit., p. 116
12. Brown, op. cit. p. 116
13. Brown, op. cit. p. 122
14. Timothy Morgan, “Why Muslims Are Becoming the Best Evangelists,” Christianity Today, April 22, 2014
15. http://famousquotefrom.com/st-francis-assisi/
16. Melissa Steffan, “The Surprising Countries Most Missionaries Are Sent From and Go To,” Christianity Today, July 25, 2013, accessed October 27, 2014,
17. https://www.gracepc.org/missions/

 

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11 NIV)

That certainly proved true for my wife Mary and me. As we discussed in our book “Spiritual Entrepreneurship – Fulfilling Your God-Ordained Destiny”, we discovered that God’s plans for those who love and obey him go far beyond our mortal lives in this present universe. This realization radically changed our outlook on life. And once we developed a willingness to go wherever God led us and to do whatever he asked us to do, we learned that God had a plan for our lives that was more challenging that our own plans, but also far more exciting and rewarding. In the process we were afforded opportunities to go places (including all 50 of the United States and over 60 foreign countries) and do things that went far beyond what we had expected for ourselves.

In my case, however, God’s blessings began long before I had made a firm commitment to follow Jesus. While in college I began to overcome my natural shyness and aversion to risk-taking and to venture out from my comfort zone. This led to my discovery of strengths which were instrumental in my ability to step out and assume leadership roles, beginning with my election as chapter president of my social fraternity. At that point my self-confidence was based on my newly discovered personal traits and not on a knowledge of who I was in God’s eyes and what I was capable of becoming with his help.

My position as a social fraternity president was then instrumental in overcoming my future wife’s initial (not very positive) impression of me when I invited her to participate in the Texas-OU weekend festivities. Within nine months after that we were engaged and 18 months later we were married. That was when God’s plans for our lives began to become into focus.

My wife was not a Christian when I married her and I was a poor excuse for one. But God began to change that when Mary met a young lady at what is now The University of Texas at Arlington who, after months of probing discussions, led her to make a profession of faith in Christ. He then began to work on me through her. At her insistence we began to attend church (I had not attended regularly since I left home for college and she never had). Then on the weekend of our fifth wedding anniversary we attended a Lay Witness Mission at our church and both made a commitment to follow Jesus Christ wherever he led us to go. And that was when God began to lead us on a path of discovery, challenge, excitement and fulfillment.

Within three years thereafter, we set out from our Texas home on a journey together which continued for more than 44 years. And God’s blessings on us began to multiply. Mary was able to begin a career in academia that would see her become the first female faculty member of the Louisiana State University Marketing Department and culminate in her retirement from Amberton University as Professor Emeritus (sic) 34 years later. In the process she was honored as Outstanding Young Woman for the State of Louisiana for 1979 and in 1982 became the first faculty member hired for the newly instituted College of Business Administration of what is now Regent University in Virginia Beach, Virginia. She also served as President of the Southern Marketing Association (now the Society for Marketing Advancement) while at LSU.

After our return to the DFW area in 1985 she had the opportunity to serve as Senior Project Manager for Marketing Services for Compucon, Inc., a subsidiary of A.C. Nielsen Company, providing consulting services to firms in the developing wireless telecommunications industry, where she gained “real world” marketing experience and learned a great deal about the then-  coming revolution in wireless communications introduced by cell phones and accelerated by smart phones. After Compucon was sold by Nielsen and became Spectrum Planning, Inc. she served as Director of Communications Information Services for that company, while also providing marketing consultation to Syndics Research as an independent contractor. After a few years she decided to return to academia (her first love) and became a Marketing and Management Professor at Amber (now Amberton) University, from which she retired in 2007. All in all she had a long and varied career, breaking gender barriers and achieving firsts in several areas. None of this would have been possible had we not taken the plunge and moved to Baton Rouge in 1973.

Best of all, though she was diagnosed with an incurable autoimmune disease of the liver in 1990, with a prognosis of one to three years to live without a liver transplant, she lived another 27 years without ever receiving that transplant. She not only lived to see our daughter grow to maturity, following in her footsteps by earning two degrees in marketing, but also to see Jennifer married to a wonderful young man with whom she will celebrate 25 years of marriage next February, and to be around for the birth of our two grandsons and have the opportunity to see them grow into their teen years, becoming fine young men themselves. A life full of God’s blessings indeed.

As for me, those blessings began to come early and have continued to this day. In the summer of 1968, only two years after my graduation from the University of Texas at Austin with a degree in aerospace engineering, while I was working as a fuselage design engineer on the LTV A-7 Corsair II, a carrier-based light attack aircraft for the U.S. Navy, I was selected to be part of an engineering support team for the retrofit trial installation of a new instrument carrier landing system (ICLS) on early model A-7’s. This work took place at the Jacksonville, Florida Naval Air Station and was a dream come true for me. I had an older friend who was a project manager on the
A-7 program and who had the opportunity to travel to the Naval Air Station Patuxent River (known as NAS Pax River) in Maryland to observe A-7 flight test operations and out to sea on aircraft carriers to observe A-7 carrier operations. My ambition was to eventually become a project manager so I could do the same, and, although I never had that opportunity this was a close second. To top off the experience, since it was in the summer my wife took time off from her university studies and went with me. We drove from Texas to Florida so had a car available for her while I was at work, so she was not stuck at the Howard Johnson’s we were staying. And, although I was working 6-day, 60-hour weeks, we spent every Sunday exploring along the eastern seaboard from south Florida to the Okefenokee Swamp at the Florida-Georgia border. This experience helped fuel our developing passion for travel, which we indulged in for the remainder of our marriage. Our last trip together was to Mobile, Alabama and Pensacola, Florida in June of 2017, just six months prior to her death in December 2017.

Greater blessings began to come after we took our first bold step and moved to Baton Rouge. Although my career in my initially chosen profession of aerospace engineering was cut short when we moved to Louisiana, I discovered that my skills, ability, experience and God-given gifts could be utilized to great advantage in other industries. I did not have a job when we made the move and wasn’t sure what I could do. But within a few months God led me to an engineering consulting firm that needed a Civil/Structural Engineer. I convinced them I could do the job and they hired me, although at a significantly lower salary than what I had been making in the aerospace industry. But with Mary’s salary we were actually better off financially.

The manufacturing industry did not require professional registration for its engineers, but the consulting industry did. Fortunately God had prepared me by having me obtain a Texas Professional Engineering license shortly before I left the state. The State of Louisiana granted me a Mechanical Engineering license by reciprocity, but I was doing Civil/Structural work now. So I studied and took the Civil Engineering exam to obtain that license also.

I had also received a Master of Business Administration degree from what is now North Texas University a few months before our move to Louisiana. (God’s preparation for what was to come) Within a year I was given the opportunity to become a project manager for my new firm, fulfilling my long-held desire. Over the next few years many unique opportunities came my way, broadening my experience and honing my skills. Although the company did not offer any training, I was able to learn enough on my own (OJT) about the engineering and architectural disciplines other than civil/structural to allow me to successfully manage multi-discipline teams. And the knowledge obtained from my MBA studies helped me to become proficient in the management skills needed to be effective in that role.

Many additional blessings followed, at least one of them quite unique.  As a non-student at Louisiana State University the only option open for me to be able to use the university library was for me to join the faculty wives club. There were not yet any other provisions for spouses of female faculty members. So I became a card-carrying member of that organization. Quite a distinction.

More exciting blessings for me as an aviation aficionado came as a result of my having project management responsibility for a series of projects my firm was designing for the Louisiana Department of Public Safety. They included a totally new headquarters campus for the DPS on the former Downtown Airport site in Baton Rouge and a number of troop and regional headquarters for the Louisiana State Police throughout the state. Interfacing with top officials of the DPS on a regular basis I came to know the Commandant of the Louisiana State Police on a first-name basis and had the opportunity to fly with him in State Police helicopters all over the state looking at potential new headquarters sites. And once, when bad weather grounded the helicopter while we were in north Louisiana, I was relayed in State Police patrol cars from region to region all the way back to Baton Rouge. Other blessing accrued which are too numerous to mention.

And when we moved to Virginia Beach, although my career with the Christian Broadcasting Network was cut short, God blessed me by preparing me for a third career yet some 15 years in the future. After leaving CBN I was unable to find another project management opportunity in the Tidewater area, having no contacts there to call upon. So I studied for and obtained a Realtor’s license and tried working with a young broker I met to market potential residential and commercial developments. I was working on straight commission and ending up going a full year without closing on any sales, although we came close several times. It was after a year of living on only my wife’s income that we decided to move back to the DFW area where I was able to quickly resume my project management career. That flourished for 14 years before I lost my job due to a severe downturn in my firm’s business which lasted for over a year. That was when my real estate experience came in handy as I went to work for a company doing commercial real estate due diligence. I had the opportunity to travel the country inspecting the type of properties I had helped design for the last 25 years and writing property condition assessment reports for our clients who were looking at purchasing them or were providing the financing for the purchase. I did this for the next 11 years until my retirement in 2010 at 68 years of age.

Mary and I would not have been able to receive all of the blessings we did had we not made the commitment to follow Christ wherever he led us and to do whatever he asked us to do. We had never imagined going all the places we were able to go, both as part of our jobs and because we could afford all the travel we enjoyed so much, or do all the things we got to do. Truly God’s plans for us were much greater than what we had planned. He knew our desires and our abilities much better than we did. All we had to do was trust him and respond to his call to follow him.

A good pastor friend of mine recently asked me what good and/or bad comments had been expressed to me regarding the loss of my wife Mary. I understood what he meant as I had recently read a book entitled, “Don’t Sing Songs to a Heavy Heart” by Dr. Kenneth C. Haugk, the co-founder of Stephen Ministries, an organization of long-term, confidential caregivers for hurting people. In it he gives advice on how to minister to people who have experienced the loss of a loved one, including what to say, what not to say and preferably to do more listening than talking. Many things that are said actually increase the pain, rather than helping to alleviate it. The best thing you can offer someone is just your presence if they want and need it and allowing them to talk if they want to.

I have been very fortunate to be associated with a host of people who have known both me and my wife, some for a number of years. They nearly all told me how much they had loved and appreciated Mary and how much they also missed her. I don’t remember anyone offering me any ill-chosen platitudes. And they have been there when I needed someone to talk to.

That being said, Shane’s question also got me to thinking about the value of sound advice. As the Scripture says,

“Without counsel, plans go awry, but in the multitude of counselors they are established.” (Proverbs 15:22 NKJV)

So I thought about the positive and negative advice I have received from people over the years. Once again, in thinking back over my life to date, I can say that on the whole I have received more good than bad advice, some of which I have ignored to my own peril.  The worst advice my wife and I ever received came from our friends at church who, in the Fall of 1973, told us we should forget about my leaving my chosen career behind and moving from the DFW area to Baton Rouge, Louisiana so Mary could begin her career in academia. Their only reason being that in doing so we would be “violating divine order.” Had we taken this advice we would have missed out on the challenging and rewarding journey on which the Lord lead us for the next 44 years. Fortunately, as we described in “Spiritual Entrepreneurship – Fulfilling Your God-Ordained Destiny”, we sought further guidance by making out a list of all the reasons we could think of for making the move and another list of all the reasons for not going and sharing them with our pastor.  He briefly scanned the list and without a moment’s hesitation said, “What are you waiting for?  The only reasons you have for not going are emotional, not practical.  You have much to gain and very little to lose by taking this opportunity.  I hate to see you leave, but my advice for you is to go.”  And so our life of adventure began in earnest.

Nine years later, with Mary and me both firmly established in our careers (mine being in a different field from the original), we were considering leaving Baton Rouge just as Mary was about to become a tenured professor in order to take on a new challenge in Virginia Beach, Virginia. This time our current pastor told us he thought this was not a good idea. We decided to go in spite of his advice. Then when we got to Virginia Beach and started looking for a house, our realtor advised us not to purchase, but to rent, until we were certain we would be there for the long haul. Once again we ignored the advice and purchased a new home with the final closing contingent on the sale of our home in Baton Rouge. A year later our Baton Rouge home was still not sold, and since we could not close on the sale on the Virginia Beach home, we were forced to move out into a rental property as we  had been previously advised. After making two house payments for a year we had nothing to show for it. Shortly after that our Baton Rouge home finally sold, but within the next few months I lost my job. Then, after I had gone without a salary for 12 months, we decided to move back to the DFW area. Fortunately we had not tried to buy another home. Lesson learned (the hard way).

A word of caution here. It is important that we not ignore good advice, but it is equally important that we not accept and act on bad advice. Good advice can help us avoid costly mistakes, while taking bad advice can be disastrous. Two good examples of this are found in the Bible.

The 3^rd chapter of I Kings records that when Solomon was made king of Israel he asked God to give him a discerning heart to govern the people and to distinguish between right and wrong. God was pleased with this request and granted Solomon not only a wise and discerning heart but also wealth and honor and long life. So Solomon became arguably the wisest and richest man who ever lived.

In spite of this, however, in the later years of his life he became jaded and wrote:

“Meaningless! Meaningless!” says the Teacher. “Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.”  (Ecclesiastes 1:2 NIV)

Then he listed all of his great accomplishments and said:

“I became greater by far than anyone in Jerusalem before me. In all this my wisdom stayed with me. I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure. My heart took delight in all my labor, and this was the reward for all my toil.

Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun.

Then I turned my thoughts to consider wisdom, and also madness and folly. What more can the king’s successor do than what has already been done?

I saw that wisdom is better than folly, just as light is better than darkness.

The wise have eyes in their heads, while the fool walks in the darkness; but I came to realize that the same fate overtakes them both.

Then I said to myself, “The fate of the fool will overtake me also. What then do I gain by being wise?” I said to myself, “This too is meaningless.”

For the wise, like the fool, will not be long remembered; the days have already come when both have been forgotten. Like the fool, the wise too must die!

So I hated life, because the work that is done under the sun was grievous to me. All of it is meaningless, a chasing after the wind.”  (Ecclesiastes 2:9-11 NIV)

This negative attitude clouded his mind and caused him to lose perspective. And in the process he lost his love for God and God’s ways.

“King Solomon, however, loved many foreign women besides Pharaoh’s daughter—Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Sidonians and Hittites.

They were from nations about which the LORD had told the Israelites, “You must not intermarry with them, because they will surely turn your hearts after their gods.” Nevertheless, Solomon held fast to them in love.

He had seven hundred wives of royal birth and three hundred concubines, and his wives led him astray.

As Solomon grew old, his wives turned his heart after other gods, and his heart was not fully devoted to the LORD his God, as the heart of David his father had been.”  (I Kings 11:1-4 NIV)

So in the end it was said of him:

“Was it not because of marriages like these that Solomon king of Israel sinned? Among the many nations there was no king like him. He was loved by his God, and God made him king over all Israel, but even he was led into sin by foreign women.” (Nehemiah 13:26 NIV)

And Solomon’s son, Rehoboam, who succeeded him on the throne of Israel fared even worse than his father. When he was made king the people of Israel came to him and said:

“Your father put a heavy yoke on us, but now lighten the harsh labor and the heavy yoke he put on us, and we will serve you.”

Rehoboam answered, “Go away for three days and then come back to me.” So the people went away. Then King Rehoboam consulted the elders who had served his father Solomon during his lifetime. “How would you advise me to answer these people?” he asked. They replied, “If today you will be a servant to these people and serve them and give them a favorable answer, they will always be your servants.”

But Rehoboam rejected the advice the elders gave him and consulted the young men who had grown up with him and were serving him. He asked them, “What is your advice? … The young men who had grown up with him replied, “These people have said to you, ‘Your father put a heavy yoke on us, but make our yoke lighter.’ Now tell them, ‘My little finger is thicker than my father’s waist. My father laid on you a heavy yoke; I will make it even heavier. My father scourged you with whips; I will scourge you with scorpions.’ ”

That is exactly what he did, and as a result all but two of the tribes of Israel revolted against him and those ten tribes chose Jeroboam as their king. Only the tribes of Judah and Benjamin remained loyal to David’s royal line which ruled from Jerusalem. The ten northern tribes disdained Jerusalem and set up their own capital and established a new center of worship in Shiloh.

After this split the northern kingdom of Israel and the southern kingdom of Judah fought periodic wars against one another and both were eventually conquered by foreign armies and their inhabitants carried away into captivity in foreign lands. Truly disastrous results from following bad advice.

As for me my wife Mary was my wisest counselor, as she knew me best. Throughout our marriage she continued to both challenge and encourage me to become the best that I could be. I am who I am today largely because of her. And now that she is no longer with me, I am fortunate enough to have several people who have known me for a number of years and who provide the same kind of challenge and encouragement. I have come to seek and ponder their advice before making any important decisions. And my life is better because of them.

 

 

 

The latest wave of mass shootings at the Gilroy Garlic Festival in California, the Walmart at the mall in El Paso, Texas and the Oregon entertainment district in Dayton, Ohio resulting in at least 34 deaths, including 2 of the gunmen, and injuring another 64 people has stirred up a hornets nest in both the mass media and social media. All three of these attacks occurred within the space of about a week. A fourth tragedy was averted when a grandmother in Lubbock, Texas persuaded her teenage grandson, who was planning to “shoot up a hotel” and “then commit suicide by cop”, to instead visit a hospital and seek treatment. He was subsequently arrested by FBI and ATF special agents.

Despite the fact that all three mass shootings were carried out by young, white male U.S. citizens who were apparently using legally purchased assault rifles (as was the fourth planned assault), the majority reaction in both forms of the media has consisted of calls for legislative action of some sort while pointing the finger of blame at one political or ideological party or another, or some hated individual or group. Pointing at anyone but ourselves that is.

The truth, I believe, is that we are the real problem. A problem that stricter gun and/or border control cannot resolve. It is matter of the heart and mind. As Richard Rohr has said,

“People’s hearts must change before structures can change. This change is the basis of genuine reform and renewal.” ¹

The first word Jesus spoke in beginning his ministry was “Repent”. The Greek word used to translate this call from the Aramaic Jesus spoke is “metanoia”, meaning “change your mind”. In other words, change the way you look at things, the worldview through which you filter everything you see, hear and feel. I have likened this to trying to see things the way God sees them.

As Richard Rohr has said:

”God refuses to be known in the way we usually know other objects. God can only be known by loving God…To love God is to love what God loves. To love God means to love everything…no exceptions.” ²

Throughout his ministry Jesus strove to get across to people the difference between their worldview and God’s. He kept saying, “You have heard it said…. but I say to you…” something completely different. For instance,

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors (read the IRS) doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. (Matthew 5:43-48 NIV)

But do we love our enemies and those who rail against us in the media? I see little evidence of that. We tend to fire back words of hate and condemnation at those with whom we disagree. The art of civil discourse is sadly lacking in today’s society it seems. And that is the root cause of the evil we see acted out so often these days.

Much of society lives in fear: fear of what the future (or even the present) holds for the economy, the way of life to which we are accustomed, our safety and the safety of our children. Mass shootings, stock market dives and massive immigration (legal and illegal) fuel this fear. The seeming inability of our government (much less ourselves) to control the course of events often leads to a feeling of despair (helplessness and hopelessness). At some point this despair turns to anger and hatred of whomever and whatever we deem to be responsible for our dilemma. We see this acted out in all the vituperative language being flung about and ultimately in the acts of violence that seem to be almost every day occurrences.

So what is the answer? The antidote for fear, despair and hatred is simply what the Apostle Paul said to the church at Corinth,

“And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” (I Corinthians 13:13 NIV)

Our faith should cause us to trust that God will take care of us, for he has said, “I know the plans I have for you … plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11 NIV) When we realize that we should have no fear of what we see happening around us and therefore no reason to be angry. And we should be sharing this good news with others we see who are fearful, despairing and angry. In doing so we are showing them love.

When faith has replaced our fear, and hope our despair, then we can act in love, rather than anger and hatred. As Christians we are taught that God is “slow to anger and abounding in love” (Psalm 103:8 NIV) and that we are to be like him, “quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry” (James 1:19 NIV), because “A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but the one who is patient calms a quarrel” (Proverbs 15:18 NIV). So let’s learn to take the time to listen to what those who differ from us are saying and try to understand where they are coming from. And let’s be slow to respond to them, and when we do, let’s replace our angry words with kinder ones. Then maybe we can help to tone down the rhetoric, relieving society’s anger and hatred, healing the sharp divisions that are rending the fabric of our lives and restoring peace and tranquility to our land.

Notes:

1. Richard Rohr’s Daily Meditation, Monday, August 5, 2019: Meditations@cac.org
2. Rohr, Richard, August 17, 2016 blog: https://cac.org/seeing-gods-eyes-2016-08-17/

 

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, the young German pastor who was executed in 1945 for his participation in the resistance movement against the Nazi regime, said,

“When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die.”

And Bonhoeffer practiced what he preached, ultimately sacrificing his life by taking action against the evil he saw being practiced by the Nazis. He took seriously what Jesus had said,

“Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. 

For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it.”

He had been a major force in establishing the Confessing Church, whose pastors openly spoke out against the attempts of the Nazis to replace the gospel of Christ with the dogmas of Nazism in the German church and who passed laws to exclude Jews and other “misfits” from German society. However, he grew increasingly disappointed in the Confessing Church’s failure to take more aggressive action, to go beyond merely professing (confessing) the Christian gospel. He took to heart the words of the apostle James, who said’

“What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? …

In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead. 

But someone will say, “You have faith; I have deeds.” Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by my deeds. 

The Nazi regime with all of its horrors may be long gone, but the racial hatred and social injustice that it preached are still alive and well in our society today. And there have been and will be those who oppose it, not only with words, but also by their actions. One such person was Martin Luther King, Jr., who, like Bonhoeffer before him, suffered martyrdom as a result of his words and actions. Dr. King demonstrated his faith by his deeds, for as he said,

“Human progress never rolls in on wheels of inevitability; it comes through the tireless efforts of men willing to be co-workers with God, and without this hard work, time itself becomes an ally of the forces of social stagnation. We must use time creatively, in the knowledge that the time is always ripe to do right.”

His emphasis was on not only saying the right things, but of doing them.

A major aspect of Christ’s ministry was his focus on highlighting and opposing the social injustice in the society of his time. But there is a deeper aspect to his call to follow him by losing our lives for him. That is the pathway by which we receive the abundant, everlasting life that he promises us.

That is not a one-time dying, as in martyrdom, but an ongoing process through which God transforms us, who are created in his image, into his likeness. That is, not only in form, but also in thoughts and actions. God wants us to see the world and each other as he sees us and to act in the world and toward others as he acts. That transformation takes time and patience, both on our part and God’s.

Jesus began his public proclamation with the call that is usually translated as “Repent.”  The Greek word was “metanoia” meaning a “change of mind” and “regret/remorse.” The challenge was to let go of our egoistic, self-centered mind set and to look at things from God’s perspective. As the Apostle Paul said.

“In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:

Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.

And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross!”

In order to accomplish this, Paul said, “I die daily.”

Richard Rohr speaks of surrendering (and dying to) our False Self in order to discover our True Self in God. He quotes Cynthia Bourgeault as saying,

“Jesus teaches the art of metanoia or “going into the larger mind.” Underlying all his teaching is a clarion call to a radical shift in consciousness: away from the alienation and polarization of the egoic operating system and into the unified field of divine abundance that can be perceived only through the heart…

Jesus was not a priest or a prophet in the usual sense of those terms. Rather, he was a wisdom teacher. He stayed close to the ground of wisdom: the transformation of human consciousness…

How do we put on the mind of Christ? How do we learn to respond to the world with that same wholeness and healing love? That’s what Christian orthodoxy really is all about. It’s not about right belief; it’s about right practice…

The hallmark of this awareness is that it sees no separation—not between God and humans, not between humans and other humans. These are indeed Jesus’ two core teachings, underlying everything he says and does…

“Love your neighbor as yourself”—as a continuation of your very own being. It’s a complete seeing that your neighbor is you…

We come into existence with a binary egoic operating system already installed. We can make the choice to upgrade to a non-dual operating system…

Everything Jesus did, he did by self-emptying. He emptied himself and descended into human form. And he emptied himself still further, “even unto death on the cross.”

Rohr sums this up by saying,

“I often say that we do not think ourselves into a new way of living, but we live ourselves into a new way of thinking. I’m not suggesting that theory and theology are unimportant; but I believe that faith is more about how we live on a daily basis than making verbal assent to this or that idea…

At times our evangelical fervor has come at the cost of spiritual formation. For this reason, we can end up with a church full of believers, but followers of Jesus can be hard to come by.

My personal take on all of this is reduce Christ’s call on my life to

“Surrender and die.”

And I am striving to do this on a daily basis.

As I draw ever closer to the end of my sojourn on earth (my mortal life), I find myself developing an eternal perspective. Or rather, I find God developing it in me. We human beings, bound as we are by the shackles of time to the present moment, can only look to the past as we remember it and try to envision what the future will hold for us. The latter is a futile exercise as we cannot accurately predict what lies ahead. We find ourselves constantly amazed by what befalls us. God, on the other hand, is not only always with us (and in us) at the present moment, but also outside of time in the eternal realm where he has always dwelt. He is thus able to see the end, as well as the beginning of time, so knows exactly what the future will bring us. As a result of this he chooses to view us as the person he has created us to be, and is in the process of transforming us into – that is, a creature in his own image (how we look) and likeness (how we act). So when he looks at us he sees the image and likeness of himself, clothed in robes of his own righteousness. That is how he can lavish his unconditional love on us, regardless of what state we currently find ourselves in. He sees who we will be, not what we have been and are now. I don’t know about you, but that is very comforting to me as imperfect as I am.

That also challenges me to see other people as God sees them (that is, who he is making them to be). Since God loves all of his creation, I must also love all of his creatures, no matter how imperfect they appear to me in the present moment. I must share in God’s eternal perspective.

And that brings me to another point. Time is but a temporary construct that will one day come to an end when God’s plan is completed. (Revelation 10:6, 7) We will all then be in the eternal realm together. In the meantime most of us will pass through death into that realm beforehand. There is therefore no reason to fear death. It is merely an early passage from the temporal to the eternal state. That too is a most comforting thought.

To summarize then, developing an eternal perspective prepares me for eternal life by showing me who we will all be when we are together in that realm, and challenges me in the present moment to live my life as if we were all there already. That, dear friends, is the kingdom of God in the midst of us on earth.

The deeper my experience of God’s love grows, the more I find my perspective broadening and becoming more inclusive, rather than exclusive. I am beginning to appreciate more why the Apostle Paul said:

And I pray that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge – that you may be filled with the measure of all the fullness of God. (Ephesians 3:17-19 NIV)

As Paul says, this love surpasses all knowledge. I am finding you have to experience God’s love to even begin to understand it. It’s not something you can reason out in your mind. As Richard Rohr has said:

God refuses to be known in the way we usually know other objects. God can only be known by loving God…To love God is to love what God loves. To love God means to love everything…no exceptions.

So I am on a journey of learning to love God by loving who and what God loves, which is everyone and everything. After all, God created everything to reflect his glory and majesty. Mankind is even created in God’s own image. In this process my understanding of God’s wrath is gradually evolving also. I am beginning to believe that I have had a serious misunderstanding of it.

For instance, when God told Adam and Eve not to eat of the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil because they would die, he was not saying “If you do that I will kill you”. He was saying “If you do that it will kill you”. More like telling a child not to touch a hot stove. It’s not that the parent will punish them for touching it, but that the hot stove will burn them.

So when the Bible says, “The wages of sin is death” in the King James Version, it doesn’t mean that God will slay you for your sin. It means more like the way the Complete Jewish Bible puts it, “For what one earns from sin is death; but eternal life is what one receives as a free gift from God, in union with the Messiah Yeshua, our Lord”.

Jesus died on the cross in our place to pay the price of death that sin (not God) demanded of us. And Christ’s substitutionary death was not in response to Adam’s fall and the death which was released as a result. No, God knew from the beginning that if he gave mankind free will they would make bad choices. So he made provision for correcting our mistakes before he created us. Jesus is the “Lamb slain before the foundation of the world”. His love for his creation was so great the he paid the wages of sin himself on our behalf.

And that’s not all. Jesus was incarnated in human flesh to demonstrate to us God’s true nature – that is Love. For God is Love. So when Jesus invited us to follow him, he was inviting us to imitate God’s love by our love for God and for all of his creation. That is why he told us to love even our enemies – because God loves them as well as us. And we should also treat all of God’s other living creatures, as well as the earth itself, with love and respect, for God loves them too.

As I said, I am gradually learning to love people who are much different than me, including those who have beliefs that are sometimes at odds with what I believe. And not only are some of my beliefs changing as a result of listening to what others believe, but in examining my own beliefs I am sometimes gaining a better understanding of why I believe them.

Now, as my perspective is broadening and becoming more inclusive, you can argue at me if you wish. But I will not argue with you. If you ask me, I will tell you what I believe now. But I will not try to impose my beliefs on you. It is up to you to decide what you believe, so that you know the reason you believe that.

My wife Mary and I had an exciting and adventurous life together for nearly 53 years. It began in January 1965 when we were married after dating for about 18 months. At first our lives were not much different from other young couples of that time. Things began to change, however, beginning on the weekend of our 5th wedding anniversary. While attending a program at our church led by laypeople much like us, we noticed a difference in their lives. They had a joyous and energetic approach to life that they attributed to their commitment to the lordship of Jesus Christ and to following his will for their lives. We were captivated by their enthusiasm and wanted what they had for ourselves. So we both made our own commitment to Christ’s lordship and began to seek his will for us also.

The only immediate change was a sense that our lives had a purpose beyond what we had previously imagined. Gradually that sense led us to more earnestly seek what plans God had for us. Although we were making small changes in our approach to life, our first big challenge came three years later. My chosen profession in the aerospace industry was rapidly losing its allure due to cutbacks in government spending and company consolidations throughout the entire industry. At the same time, Mary was completing the requirements for a PhD in Marketing and began receiving offers from out of state universities regarding a position on their faculty. After long and prayerful consideration, and with the encouragement of our pastor, we decided that I would terminate my employment and we would move from north Texas to south Louisiana so that Mary could begin her academic career as a member of the Louisiana State University faculty.

That was the first step in what proved to be an exciting and rewarding series of adventures that took us from Louisiana to Virginia and back to Texas and through a series of careers in several different industries for both of us. In the process we learned that our talents, skills, experience and God-given gifts could be applied in different ways in many diverse situations. All that was required was a willingness to go wherever God led us and to do whatever he asked us to do. In the process of so doing we learned that God had a plan for our lives that was more challenging that our own plans, but also far more exciting and rewarding. In the process we were afforded opportunities to go places (including all 50 of the United States and some 60 foreign countries) and do things that went far beyond what we had expected for ourselves.

Based on our life experiences as a married couple with dual professional careers, Mary and I developed the concept that we call spiritual entrepreneurship. The challenges we faced in fulfilling the requirements of two separate careers without neglecting our family obligations led us to the principles and practices of this concept.
For the full story of what spiritual entrepreneurship is and how Mary and I came to discover its principles our new book, “Spiritual Entrepreneurship – Fulfilling Your God-ordained Destiny” is now available in both paperback and Kindle versions on Amazon: http://amzn.to/2yFVBYM
P.S.
Mary passed away in December 2017, three months after the book was published. She is continuing her journey in the heavenly realm. In the meantime, the earthly adventure continues for me.