The Bible makes it clear that you have a choice about your destiny. You can either spend eternity with God or without him. God has pre-ordained your destiny depending on the choice that you make. Since God knows the end from the beginning, he knows which choice we will make before we are even born. In fact, he made provisions for our destiny before he created the world.

Ephesians 1:4,5 says,

4 For he chose us  in him before the creation of the world  to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love  5 he predestined  us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure  and will–

And Romans 8:29 says,

For those God foreknew he also predestined  to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.

So before he even created man, God knew what man would do, and ordained that those who chose to cast their lot with him would be adopted into his family, having been made holy and blameless, and thus able to live in his presence for eternity.

Sadly, for those whom he knew would choose to  reject his offer to join with him, God  ordained an eternal destiny of separation from him.

The choice is yours. And your destiny depends on the choice that you make.